I am a very romantic person. Anyone who has ever been subjected to my own special brand of sarcasm
may find that hard to believe, but it's true: I'm really a deeply
romantic girl at heart. So on occasion I love watching romantic films. They do need lots of
humor and wit or suspense in them as well, otherwise I don't know,
they're just a bit meh.
Now when I first watched Notting Hill I did think for a moment I was
watching Four Weddings and a Funeral in a rather flimsy disguise (quirky
yet adorable people, the huggable gay character, the handicapped
friend, the elusive American girl and not to mention Hugh Grant doing
the awkward yet lovely British guy routine for the umpteenth time). It
was good fun nonetheless. Hey, if the formula works, it works. Who am I
to argue? Plus, the film contains one of my favourite quotes ever:
'happiness isn't happiness without a violin-playing goat'. Perfection.
In case you haven't seen the film yet: spoiler alert!
I loved it when Anna/Julia and William/Hugh were out walking and found
their way into one of London's hidden gardens. In which they came upon a
bench that had the following words carved in it:
For June who loved this garden. From Joseph who always sat beside her.
To which Anna/Julia quietly says: 'Some people do spend their whole
lives together.' And you can hear in her voice and tell from the look on
her face that that is what she wants too. I know - only good acting.
Eventually they (of course!) do find each other and the whole thing ends
with the two of them on a park bench in London, she lying heavily
pregnant with her head in his lap. Ahhhh.
I was quite disappointed therefore to learn that 'the' Notting Hill
bench had been nothing more than a prop. There was never a June who died
leaving a bereaved Joseph behind. With a garden and a bench and
memories. The bench has now found its way to a park in Perth, Australia.
It was never even a London garden bench. I know it was silly of me to
want it all to be true because it was Just A Film after all. But there
you go. Deep down I was miffed.
And then my mate KT took me to Whitstable a couple of weeks ago. As you
may recall, I had never even heard of the place. Yes Mr. S.C. from E. - I
did already admit that that was a huge flaw in my upbringing. Don't rub
it in.
Here's the thing though: I might not have been familiar with Whitstable,
but I had definitely heard of one of its most famous residents: actor Peter Cushing.
You probably know him - he played opposite Christopher Lee in many a
Hammer film. He was in Star Wars at one time. And he did Sherlock Holmes.
He had just the face for it too. Some aquiline nose that was.
What a lot of people don't know about Peter Cushing, is the great love
story of his life. Run for the hills now if you don't want to hear it.
Peter Cushing married his Helen in 1943. They were devoted to each other
and felt they were meant to be together. That they had met before
somehow. How lovely is that. They were inseparable until her relatively
early death in 1971, leaving him heartbroken. He was quoted as saying:
'Since Helen passed on I can't find anything. The heart, quite simply,
has gone out of everything. Time is interminable, the loneliness is
almost unbearable and the only thing that keeps me going is the
knowledge that my dear Helen and I will be united again some day'. He
kept feeling this way till the day he himself died in 1994. Helen had
left him a letter when she died however, saying:
'Let the sun shine in
your heart. Do not pine for me my beloved Peter as that would cause
unrest. Do not be hasty to leave this world because you will not go
until you have lived the life you have been given. And remember. We will
meet again when the time is right. This is my promise.'
Some people might find their story too sentimental. And consider the
fact that he never quite moved on after her death an unhealthy thing.
There is something to be said for that. All the same I can't help
myself, I still find it a very touching love story.
And wait - there's a bench in there too. And this one is real.
Peter and Helen loved the pretty coastal town of Whitstable and bought a
house there in 1959. Peter had this bench placed at the spot that is
now called 'Cushing's View'. It is said that this is where Peter used to
sit and enjoy the view. The plaque on the bench says:
Presented by Helen and Peter Cushing who love Whitstable
and its people so very much. 1990.
Sadly Helen never actually got to sit on this bench together with her
beloved Peter. But at least the love story attached to it is real this
time. And when I first saw it (before they got up and I could take a
picture of it), a middle-aged couple were sitting on it, hand in hand,
looking the very picture of contentment. Don't you think that's exactly
what Peter and Helen would have wanted? I'd like to think so.
Feature written by Sacha
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